Knowing that why she can not experience orgasm, is difficult.
Many women have difficulty in achieving orgasm, or have never experienced orgasm. There are some physiological parameters which can be inhibit female libido and the ability to achieve orgasm in women: Testosterone hormone imbalance, medications such as antidepressants, her anatomy, and of course, issues related to the partner. The last case can include the unavailability of spouse, problems of male anatomy, early ejaculation and lack of knowledge about the body and femininity of women. Also tend to be a lot of pressure during sexual intercourse can also prevent to irritating the woman. Many work tasks, resentful, neglected, hailed failure led to coldness in women.
Stay away from the husband and distrust of him is considered by women, and would not be triggered. Insecure attachment patterns (anxiety and avoidance) that developed in childhood , remain in adulthood , and are strongly influenced by considerations of their sex.In this article we want to examine psychological factors that have a negative impact on sexual desire of women, arousal and orgasm capacity. Of course, this list does not mean that we have examined all the factors, there may be other cases that for everyone occur different.
Critical thoughts about the body:
Many women have intrusive thoughts or important inner voice about their bodies, that cut out sexual excitement and prevented orgasm experience. They can have self-conscious thoughts about the size of their genitals. Also, thoughts about it’s infection or is not clean , it prevents to oral sex communication. Many women internalized their parents’ negative attitudes towards bodily functions during toilet training. As a result, recognize the body image, dirty thoughts being recalled. In particular, the genital area is covered with anal concept, and with the excretory function gets confused. Women’s shameful feeling about this area to anything below the waist, (including menstruation) expanded and they end up feeling dirty or contaminated, and this way that can interfere to get to the stimulation and orgasm. When women have negative thoughts about their body parts, finding the sensitive spot of the area is difficult when touched. If they feel bad about their bodies, they do not enjoy sex simply.
Understand sex as immoral or bad action :
Many women have earned distorted thoughts about sex early in life and during the process of being socialization. In general, the negative attitude of parents towards nudity, masturbation and sex have a strong influence on emotions on both boys and girls about sexuality and sexual practice. As a result, people usually have little information about an acceptable and good sex. In addition, in some religions, their belief systems are very rigid about their sexual relationship and it is considered sinful and dirty. Women who are grown in this attitudes,considered sex forbidden, shameful and bad. They have bad feeling to love and sex and they are waiting for bad consequences and punishment.
Having a very busy mind:
Most of women have an active mind during the sex, and can not concentrate it on these activities. Thoughts that occupy the brain,and rather than sexual stimulation leads to rust repressed sexual desire. Many women can not inhibite to their thoughts about children, household tasks, and job problems and … during sex, and this caused weakness and failure orgasm.